Is time really heals or time actually make u ignorant?

Often, people mention time heals. In relationship and in every not-so-happy events in life. But does that really how it works?

Recently, i couldnt lie to myself that clock is ticking. I know that marriage is not a MUST thing in life, but somehow, being single at this century, at this age, the only questioned that popped into my mind was "Is there something wrong with me, that make men left?"

Im not trying to be desperate here.

Looking at myself, i really wonder where it goes wrong? My looks? The dress i wore? or to make it hurts, was it because I HAVE A PROBLEM getting along with guys?

To come to think again, I do have a lot of good guy friends and i am getting more guy friends nowadays. Is not Im the one looking for them, mind you, is just that,every guy, i take them as a friend, like a girl friend.

Some you know, u can open up to them. Some you know, 5 mins facing them is already too long.

Recently, came 2 guys in my mind. One was the one i had a crush on, and he knew it, and he beats around the bush and finally, time made me Care-less of him. Is not that i dont hope for miracles to happen, to hope for the time we spent together like we had before, is just that, am really tired to baby sit a guy anymore. All i can hope for is a good ending, for both of us, regardless how it ends.

2nd guy was a guy that i would say i have missed. Started as a friend, progress as a hi-bye friend, then, a friend that i have learn something from him: How should a girl be treated. Is just that, it was the time that i realise, these are what i am looking for in a guy, Miss Understanding, came along, and somehow affected the friendship, Again, i told myself, if it is belongs to you, he will come back again. IF.

It is really true that " People that love us, we hurt them. People that we love, hurt us".

Does time really heals? Or we were wasting alot of time picking up stones instead and left the diamonds out along the way?