Another breakup..

Today, receives another shocking news, another pair of couple which we all thought they would live a cinderella life soon, which is next year, ended. The relationship is 6 years old.

This year, indeed wasnt a year for relationship. Affairs, conflicts and breakups is what I received. Froma 10 year first love relationship to 3 months relationship, all ended without knowing its coming.

Ppl tend to measure how deep is the love between a couple on how long they have been together. Again, i think time 'paktoh' together is not the parameter at all.

Instead, i think love should be genuinely from your heart. A relationship wont work with true feelings from both parties.

I have a small debate with my roommates. Both them thinks that women nowadays should just marry a good and a guy that loves them. It doesnt really matter whether whether the ladies have feelings for the guy.

I totally oppose it. Because i still think love should be both parties' feeling. When one decides that the end because he or she felt that the feeling is not there already, voice it out. Never keep just because you both have been together for long or the other party not able to take it. Is not hurting. But the person you have to please, at least in this world, is yourself as this is your life.

I always believe that marriage is forever. Im still hoping and believe that love is what it should mean LOVE from the bottom of your heart. Maybe you are thinking im dreaming of something impossible, but I guess, Ill hold this principle to my last breath, though i know fairytales is unlikely to happen to me. But, im crossing my fingers behind my back and hope my wishes will come true, one fine day.

But in this material world now, is this possible?

Are men be together because they are already together for long?

Because is already a habit?

Because of money?

Because of fame?

Because of fun?

What does love means to you?